The Smart Music Teacher’s Guide to Surviving—and Thriving—at School
In the symphony of public education, music teachers often feel like the piccolo—essential but easily overlooked. You’re tasked with running a program that requires long hours, big dreams, and even bigger budgets. Yet, your success often depends on the support of your principal and administrative team—the people behind the curtain who decide what gets funded, scheduled, and prioritized.
So how do you ensure your relationship with admin is more Beethoven than bad breakup?
This guide will walk you through the best strategies for building a great relationship with your principal and admin team, with an eye on public school realities, music education best practices, and good old-fashioned emotional intelligence.
Why It Matters More Than You Think
Before we jump into the how, let’s talk about the why. Your principal holds the keys to:
⚫ Your budget (hello, new timpani!)
⚫ Your schedule (no more 7 a.m. rehearsals, please)
⚫ Your visibility within the school
⚫ And, importantly, your job security.
A strong relationship helps you advocate for your program and yourself. And it’s not just good for you—it benefits students. When your program thrives, kids get access to the arts, which research shows improves everything from academic performance to social-emotional health. (Source: Arts Education Partnership)
1. Speak Their Language: Data, Discipline, and Deliverables
You’re fluent in Dorian mode. Your principal? Not so much. Administrators are often trained to think in terms of data, outcomes, and school-wide priorities.
Want support? Show:
⚫ Concert attendance trends
⚫ Student participation rates
⚫ Behavior data (Yes, your band kids are often the best-behaved students. Prove it.)
⚫ Academic spillover effects (Highlight music students in AP classes or on honor rolls.)
Use free tools like Google Forms or your school’s SIS to gather and present this data in clear reports each semester.
Pro Tip: Administrators love a good spreadsheet more than a trumpet player likes taking it up the octave. Give them one.
2. Invite, Don’t Just Inform
Too often, music teachers operate in silos. Instead of just notifying your principal about your next concert, personally invite them.
Better yet:
⚫ Ask them to greet the audience
⚫ Hand out awards
⚫ Or conduct a piece (seriously, they’ll love it).
Engagement builds advocacy. It also humanizes you. When your admin sees the joy on students’ faces during a performance, they become more emotionally invested in your program.
3. Don’t Just Vent—Strategize
Everyone needs to blow off steam. But if your interactions with admin always begin with “We have no money,” or “The schedule is a disaster,” you risk being tuned out.
Instead:
⚫ Frame problems as opportunities
⚫ Offer solutions or alternatives
⚫ Ask for advice, not just action
For example:
“My rehearsal schedule is impossible.”
“I’ve drafted a rehearsal schedule that meets our goals without impacting core classes. Can we review it together?”
Pro Tip: Learn to become friends with the school guidance counselor. They are the ones who effectively determine each student's schedule and whether they get Band or not.
4. Know the School’s Vision and Align With It
Is your school emphasizing college readiness, PBIS, equity, or SEL? Great. Your music program can amplify those initiatives.
⚫ College readiness? Showcase alumni attending conservatories or majoring in music education.
⚫ PBIS? Track your ensemble’s positive behavior metrics.
⚫ SEL? Highlight how music builds teamwork, resilience, and self-expression.
Mention these connections explicitly in faculty meetings or newsletters. It positions you as a partner, not a passion project.
5. Budget Wisely—and Transparently
Money can be a hot topic. Make your budget requests with clarity and timing. Provide itemized lists, explain how equipment will be used, and, when possible, seek outside funding via grants or DonorsChoose.
And always include the “why” behind the buy:
“This new mixer board will allow us to livestream concerts and improve community engagement—supporting district goals for family involvement.”
Being financially savvy builds trust—and admin love working with staff who respect fiscal boundaries while growing programs responsibly.
6. Communicate Consistently—Not Just in Crisis
Try this experiment: Send a monthly update to your principal. Keep it short but powerful:
⚫ Wins from the past month
⚫ Upcoming events
⚫ A spotlight student or staff member
Use visuals. Photos. Short video clips. Tools like Canva make this easy and free.
Amusing truth: Principals get so many complaints in a week, your cheerful, solution-focused email might just become their favorite.
7. Be Present—And Be Helpful
Is your school short on hallway monitors during testing week? Volunteer. Got a school carnival? Run the sound. Help with bus duty once a week.
You don’t have to be everywhere, but when your admin sees you contributing outside the music room, they recognize you as a team player—not “just the band director.”
This goodwill often comes back in the form of extra support when you need it most.
8. Document Everything (Yes, Everything)
This one’s not flashy, but it’s essential. Keep a record of:
⚫ Purchase orders
⚫ Rehearsal schedules
⚫ Incident reports
⚫ Meeting notes
Why? Because turnover happens. Today’s supportive principal may be gone next year. Your well-documented paper trail ensures your program’s history and rationale don’t vanish with them.
It also makes you look like the pro you are when new admin arrives.
9. Know When to Fight the Battle (Tactfully)
Sometimes you’re asked to do something unreasonable—like run a full musical with two weeks’ notice and zero budget. Don’t be a pushover.
Instead, use language like:
“I’d love to help with that. Here’s what I’d need to make it happen effectively. If that’s not possible, let’s revisit the idea later.”
Boundaries are not insubordination. They’re professionalism. And admin respect teachers who balance passion with practical limitations.
10. Celebrate Together
When your kids win a trophy, hit that high note, or perform at state, make sure your principal knows—and gets credit too.
Tag them in social media posts (if district policy allows), invite them to the celebration, or send a handwritten thank-you card. Building these moments into your routine creates long-term loyalty.
Pro Tip: Recognition is free and feels like a standing ovation. There is not a world shortage of praise or applause.
Final Thoughts: It’s a Partnership, Not a Popularity Contest
At the end of the day, your job isn’t to be your principal’s best friend. It’s to build a working relationship that supports students and music education. Like any great duet, it takes:
⚫ Timing
⚫ Listening
⚫ And mutual respect
Start small. Be consistent. And remember: when the relationship works, the music—and the magic—can be unstoppable.
Further Reading and Resources:
NAfME: Building Advocacy in Your Music Program
Education Week: What Principals Wish Teachers Knew
Harvard Business Review: How to Manage Up
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